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The Basics of Building Attraction with Women

Submitted by on September 7, 2008 – 8:07 pmOne Comment

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The “alpha-male” is the kind of man women are instinctively attracted to because he embodies the traits they look for in a man.

To understand the basics of building attraction with women you must know the different ways people figure out their values. This concept is called Social Proof and it has been apart of our culture and evolution since the caveman days.

What is Social Proof? – From early on in life we tend to look for others approval for almost everything we do. In most social environments we look to others to see if what we are doing is right. This can be damaging due to in most cases if we do not get others approval we then think that we are wrong. You must first change this outlook and stop looking for approval from others.

With that said social proof is still very important in building attraction with women. Women tend to value other peoples opinion’s, and if other people value you highly, she will too. For example if more women want you or you’re exceptional with women this will raise your value to her. She will want you more just because these other women gave you that social proof.

What you can do to increase your value – The things that you can easily change like keeping a clean appearance, not having body odor, bad breath, and maintaining a healthy weight will help build some of your attraction with women. Don’t get automatically disqualified because of something that you can change.

Your appearance is only a small part of building attraction with women. The single most important quality you can improve is your personality. The popular dating coach David DeAngelo gives his students a very important principal to follow.

Make the best of your looks and money, but your personality is the most powerful quality you can improve. Make the most of it.

Here are some personality and attitude traits that will help in building attraction with women:

  • Don’t be a wussbag – Bitching and Complaining are big turn offs. Do you look for a girl that acts like this, if not then don’t be that way yourself.
  • Be the leader – Be confident and don’t be the habitual follower.
  • Know your goals – Know what you want in life and in every situation. Find you path, get on it, and stay on it.
  • Keep your composure – Don’t loose your cool even if a woman tries to push your buttons. She only does this to see what kind of a man you really are.
  • Don’t rush things – Going to fast when shes not on the same level is disastrous. Take too steps forward and one small step back.

To sum it up – Be calm, cool, and collected.

These are some of the basics to building attraction with women. To her, your social value is very important but not paramount. Always remember your attitude and personality are number one.

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